Not Your Average Lives Podcast

Episode 320: Want a Better Life? Start by Applying the Law of Correspondence

mindset Apr 19, 2023

In this episode, I talk about one of my favorite Universal Laws, other than the Law of Attraction, the Law of Correspondence. It's not the type of correspondence that implies exchanging letters but it definitely is about the exchange of messages, as well as the other aspects of the definition of correspondence: similarity, connection, and equivalence.

It's actually a very simple law to understand and apply and it's closely connected to the Law of Attraction and the manifestation process.If you've never heard about it, learn about it here and start practicing it today! If you have heard of it, are you applying it? If not, perhaps this is a great reminder or nudge that it's what you needed to hear today.

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Episode 319: They Manifested What They Desired Without Even Realizing It

mindset Apr 14, 2023

In today’s episode I share real life example of late bloomers who followed a passion, even when life looked bleak. In all cases, they could have easily let doubt drive them to give up but they, through what I believe was pure instinct and desire to do what they loved, trusted the process and persevered to success.

Having faith that it would all work out and not trying to control the outcome is once of the manifestation tips I shared in my last episode. Control is like kryptonite to the Law of Attraction! It will kill the positive energy required to attract the life you want.

So let these stories inspire you to stop trying to control by having all the answers and using logic to get to the outcome you desire. Just find out what it is that you love and keep doing it, while also keeping a clear picture of the outcome you desire, then let it flow to you as it is meant to. When you do that, what you attract will always be better than you had imagined.

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Episode 318: Are You Making One of These Manifestation Mistakes?

mindset Apr 11, 2023

Are you having trouble manifesting? If so, maybe you are making one of these 5 mistakes. 

Many people don't realize that there is a real science behind manifestation. It's a universal law called the Law of Attraction and this law guarantees that you will get whatever you focus your thoughts on - good or bad.

So if you are living a life that is not what you want, then you can use your innate manifesting abilities that you were born with to attract the life you want.

Yes it is THAT EASY! 

But the problem is most of us we focus on the wrong things and we don't really understand the manifesting process and how it works. We are using it incorrectly, likely making one of these mistakes, or we aren't using it at all. It is just sitting at the bottom of our self help toolbox collecting dust.

If this sounds intriguing and you're curious if you may be missing out on this valuable tool or you're trying and it's just not working, this episode is a must listen for you!

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Episode 317: Using Intuition to Find a Serial Killer Before He Struck Again

mindset Apr 08, 2023

Did you know I was the wife of one of the 2 detectives who solved this country’s first serial killer case based on DNA evidence? That’s a little known random fact about my earlier years.

I woke up with the idea to share this story so, because I trust the downloads I receive, I went with it. As I was remembering my personal experience and using google to recollect some of the facts, like timing of the events, I thought of two key turning points in the investigation where intuition was used, whether the detectives realized it or not.

Back then, I didn’t have the understanding I do now about how much logic turns us away from the actual truth so reliving this story allowed me to recognize the huge value intuition played in the solving of these murders. If these two detectives had not followed their intuition, they would not have:

  • tied the 3 murders that happened in a different city to the one they were assigned to, or
  • come up with the serial killer’s name so quickly.

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Episode 316: How To Manifest The Seemingly Impossible

mindset Apr 04, 2023

If I hadn't been listening to the book "The Vortex" as I was in the air on my delayed flight, which the airline had confirmed before my departure would cause me to miss my connecting flight, this manifestation would have never happened.

But I just so happened to be on the "Law of Attraction" chapter, and it gave me an idea.

It's funny because I know how manifestation works, but today's episode is a perfect example of how easily we fall into the world of accepting what is, or what we THINK has to be that we have no control over. But in reality, it's the future that hasn't yet happened and that means it can be changed!

We give our power away when all we have to do is change our energy! We must keep the faith that we CAN change our perceived outcomes so the future that might seem impossible becomes possible. And the first step is to BELIEVE what we want to happen is possible.

The book I was reading reminded me of that. It brought be back, not to the reality of my missed flight - th...

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Episode 314: The Importance of Giving Birth After Menopause

mindset Mar 28, 2023

When I had this thought, it felt important to talk about because those of us who are dealing with the sadness of an empty nest focus so much on missing the kids we gave birth to that we fail to see we can still give birth!!! We can give birth to new ideas, to new dreams, to new goals!

Maybe we no longer can give birth to a child, but would you really want to do THAT again if you could?! Not me!

But our children gave us such purpose and we miss that feeling. I get that. So get pregnant with purpose!

And when you do, focus on the OUTCOME, not all of the effort and steps it will take to get to that goal. Just like the baby was the outcome of your goal of having a child.

What is the desired outcome of a dream you have? What does it look like when it is fully birthed and comes into existence? How does it make you FEEL?

I had fun with this topic because the analogy makes so much sense when you think about it. Listen in and hear my comparisons so you can understand why we find it so e...

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Episode 312: Finally Finding Her Voice After Being Raised in a Cult, with Tiphany Kane

mindset Mar 21, 2023

Today's guest is Tiphany Kane, who I refer to as a Podcasting Dynamo, because she has not just one but THREE podcasts! I asked her to be on the show because she's a great role model of living a sparked second half, as well as a fantastic example of how you can find your way to a more passionate existence in spite of the hardships or lack of support you may have.

Tiphany has certainly made up for lost time, creating her own company, KaSa Media Productions which allows her to bring her passion for the art of the spoken word to people who need help finding their voice.

She's a coach, public speaker, podcast producer, videography director and is the Executive Director of Sonic Bloom Podcast Awards. Tiphany also hosts the Radical Audacity in Love & Life, Diet Riot Sweat Repeat, and Mastering the Podcaster Mindset podcasts. 

"You are just too passionate." were the words she heard from a supervisor explaining why she was not selected for a promotion she was qualified for. Although these...

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Episode 310: Why You Might Be Failing At Your Goals

mindset Mar 14, 2023

What if there was one simple thing you could do, and it was a pretty quick exercise, that would almost guarantee you'd stop failing, or giving up, on the goals you've been setting? Something that would stop you from feeling like you are slogging through quicksand?

And what if this exercise would not only turn on your internal motivation switch, it would get you aligned with your authentic self - the real version of you I talked about in last week's episodes?

Is that something you'd be interested in learning more about?

If it is, you'll love today's episode in which I talk about the #1 reason that most people are failing at their goals and how this might be an indication that you have the wrong goals.

I also share how you can remedy this problem before you go to bed tonight. In fact, it's something everyone needs to do ASAP. And guess what, it's something I didn't do until I was 60 years old. 😳  But once I did it, it was a goal game changer!!! 

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Episode 308: How Personality Tests Can Harm You

mindset Mar 07, 2023

Who doesn't love a great personality test?! I know I love learning more about myself! But here's the thing... Your results might be wrong!!! 😲

Yep! That's right! You could be getting misinformation about yourself! 😫

What I've learned, as I've gained a lot of knowledge in this field over the past 3 years, is that over 70% of the population is getting incorrect results because they are not in alignment with who they were born to be.

Instead the majority of us are navigating around life trying to adapt who we are to meet society's expectations and when we do that, we end up denying our "inborn" nature and fall into misalignment.

So if you are not in true alignment, do you think when you take a personality test, you'll answer questions based on who you were born to be? Heck no! Your results will be based on who you THINK you are - who you've chosen to be, and not who you truly are.

And because these results could lead you down the totally wrong path, I thought this was an important...

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Episode 306: Is Unhealed Trauma Hiding Your Gifts? An eye-opening interview with Tanner Wallace

career mindset Feb 28, 2023

Tanner Wallace, an online trauma recovery coach, shares how she leads people to life-changing transformations by uncovering their internal family systems In this week’s episode of Living Your Sparked Second Half.

Tanner specializes in unlocking her clients' hidden-in-plain-sight gifts that are obscured by all the wounding and disappointment. She also hosts a Relational Healing Podcast “HELD by Tanner” and is the creator of the Relational Healing Lab.

In this episode, Tanner talks about:

  • What accelerated her professional move from professor to trauma recovery  coach and the deeply transformational work she now does and why she chose to develop this area of expertise.
  • What Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (CPTSD) means. 
  • The different types of family structures, how the dynamics within them play a part in the development of trauma, and how these dynamics continue into adulthood.
  • The tools she use and how she is using it for her transformative work

A great aspect of Ta...

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